Do you feel like you are all alone in your marriage?
Are your schedules so busy with work and taking care of your family that you are simply too tired to connect?
Wouldn't it be great if you could move from exhausted and alone to connected and supported?
To feel like you were part of a team?
The Restoring Connection Plan
is a communication journey to a deeper and richer connection between you and your spouse.
If you are willing to give us, and your spouse, just 10 minutes a day for 4 weeks - you can quickly be on your way to a more connected and fulfilling marriage.
Hi! We're Chris & Jamie Bailey
We are professional Christian Marriage Counselors and Coaches.
Not only have we used all our tools and techniques to strengthen our own marriage, but we’ve also helped thousands of couples restore and enrich their marriages too.
We know what it takes to have a God-centered, connected and thriving marriage, and we want to help you have the same!
A message from Chris & Jamie
Remember the days of old when you had all those butterflies and felt so close and connected?
You know -
those days when you talked for hours on the phone and couldn't seem to get enough of each other?
Well, the butterflies may have taken flight, but...
Can you imagine having that same desire to talk, listen and learn more about one another?
Think about it...
What would change in your life if you knew you had a spouse who you could share your honest heart with?
Would 4 weeks of your time spent learning how to communicate (and actually applying what you learn) be worth it?
Then this is the course you need!
In this course, you will...
- discover that reconnecting with your spouse can be done in as little as 10-15 well spent minutes together a day.
- get encouragement and practical tips on communicating and sharing openly and honestly with one another.
- learn how to take small opportunities for conversation and turn them into heart-binding connections.
- have an established communication skill set and new mindset that will be a catalyst to even greater connection in your marriage.
Here's what you'll learn over the next 4 weeks
Week 1: Building the habit of connection
You'll learn to prioritize your time together.
Week 2: Becoming a good listener
You'll learn the skills of listening and reflecting - one of the best marriage communication skills around!
Week 3: Learning to share your REAL feelings
You'll learn how to use one another as a valuable resource in times of struggle.
Week 4: Dreaming for the future
You'll learn how to take where you are and turn into where you want to go in the future.
Are you thinking,
"This sounds great, but my husband will never particpate in this. He hardly talks at all!"
If this is you, we hear you!
But before you assume that to be the case, why not ask him?
And if he doesn't want to, we promise that just learning these skills on your own will still be incredibly helpful to your marriage.
*Remember that you have life time access to The Restoring Connection Plan so you can go through it again when he is ready to.
If you truly want better a marriage, you will need to be committed to this action plan.
Sure, there is room to miss a day or two here and there.
But developing the habit of communication and connection will require that you show up.
And it will be worth it!
What's included in the course:
- 4 Weekly videos where we will teach a lesson on communication and give specific instructions for the connecting points you will be focusing on that week
- App Access using the Zenler App to access the entire course and track your progress as you go.
- Daily emails with these connecting point questions (1 question per day, 6 days a week) to answer during your 10-15 minutes of connecting time
- End of week "check-in card" that you and your spouse will fill out separately and then share with one another
- Lifetime access to the course as long as you want it so you can go through it again
Plus, we have these bonuses to make sure you keep connecting after you finish the course!
These 30 questions will help you continue to grow closer as a couple.
Use them as daily check-ins or tackle several at a time once a week.
Or however they work for you!
Want to see change in your marriage? There is no better and more effective way then to pray for your spouse to feel the presence of God in his or her life. And your prayers play a big part!
There is no need to let another day of disconnection in your marriage go by.
You are 2 that have become 1.
It's time to get back to that!
If you are ready to...
grow as a couple,
connect at a deeper level, and
experience the power of effective communication,
then what are you waiting for?!
Why should you believe we can help you?
There was a time in our own marriage when we found ourselves heading in different directions.
This wasn’t because we were in the middle of a bad marriage, even though we’ve certainly been there too, it actually happened without our even knowing it was happening.
We had three young kids, a home under construction, bills to pay, and so many other things stealing our focus, and more importantly, our time together.
We were drifting apart and disconnecting simply because we stopped being intentional with our time together.
We had dreams of date nights and mini getaways, thinking surely they would serve as a time to catch up, relax, and have fun together; but it turns out, when you’re just trying to survive every day life and not communicating regularly you never find the time to actual make any plans!
If someone would have told us what a difference just 10 minutes of focused time together a day would make, we could have gained back years of connection, and not to mention, years of having a less chaotic home.
Couples who don’t talk, don’t connect.
And while that was once us, we don’t want it to be you.
So let us be the ones to tell you, “You need connection in your marriage!”
Take the time to invest in it.
Trust us, you won’t regret it.
"When we started this course we were by our standards communicating and just living day to day. Not really putting any actual thought or consideration into our conversation on what the other might be feeling. After being married for 36 years we fell into a rut. The daily questions actually brought up more conversations, and actually listening to each other has us talking more and laughing again."
- Barbara
married 36 years
"If you're on the fence about taking this course, don't be! It's a step-by-step guide that even one party in the relationship can start. I firmly believe God is using this couple to create positive change in marriages everywhere. This course helped even me and my spouse, who have been together for almost 20 years!! There's always more you can build on in your marriage, and everyone craves to be understood! Listen to their podcasts, do this Plan, and you'll see positive results in your marriage!"
- Ashley & Cody P
married 12.5 years